By Donna Moyer
Jan 22, 2026
Gardening doesn’t have to take over your time—or your energy—to be rewarding. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed before you even started planting, it may not be the garden that’s the problem, but the plan behind it.
This post walks you through a gentler way to think about garden planning—one that starts with your real life, not an ideal version of it. You’ll learn the simple questions that help you choose the right size, style, and pace for your garden so it feels enjoyable instead of stressful.
👉 Read on to learn how to plan a garden that truly fits your lifestyle.
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By Donna Moyer
May 22, 2025
Gardening doesn’t have to be all or nothing. If you’re short on time, space, energy—or just feeling the strain of doing it all—you don’t have to give it up completely. With a few thoughtful adjustments, you can still enjoy the beauty, joy, and satisfaction of gardening on your own terms. In this post, I’m sharing 5 practical tips to help you scale back without stepping away, so you can keep your hands in the dirt and your heart in the garden.
Read on for 5 simple strategies will help you keep growing—even when life says slow down.
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